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Dearest you,

This is Jack and Clayton.

Thanks for stopping by: we are here to help you love and be loved in the way you’ve always wanted.

For most women, relationship is THE place of your deepest fulfillment. The place where you get to share those mundane moments with someone...lazy Sunday mornings, an evening in the park or with some Netflix curled up on the couch.  It’s where you get to go to bed and wake up with a man’s arms around you, making you feel so safe and loved.

However, it’s also THE place of some of the toughest despair and pain, when you’re not in a healthy one or you’re unhappily alone.

Maybe you’ve been consistently plagued with questions like, “am I good enough?" "Am I pretty enough?” “Is there something wrong with me?”  “Why does it have to be so hard!?”

More than anything, you’re finally ready for it to happen with the right guy.  Maybe you’ve got a string of failed relationships stacking up behind you and were sure one would have worked by now, but it hasn’t.  

Or maybe you had a great relationship or were even married, but it’s over and you haven’t really moved on and you know it’s time to discover a new blueprint to attract a relationship.

You’re done with the narcissists, the commitment-phobes and the emotionally unavailable men that don’t really see your value and you’re finally ready to find the love that sticks.

But, if you’re honest with yourself, you know that something needs to change

And it’s not necessarily the men.  In fact, you’re tired of blaming men for your lack of relationship because deep down you know that it’s something you’re doing that pushes them away.

Our promise to you is to reveal what’s really been stopping you from having what you so deeply crave.  Having both coached women for 1000s of hours, we both feel clear on what the common, recurring issues are and how to fix them.

Our approach is simple but profound.

We know what men want. We know they need the right balance of challenge and trust.  We know men need to feel your strength, and your vulnerability.

When you clear up things on your side of the fence using this model, you can create a relationship from a completely different place.

That’s exactly what this page is dedicated to.  

Enjoy reading it and we hope you’ll let us have your back in creating a totally new possibility for your love life.

In your corner,  

Jack Clayton

  • Tired of Dead-End Relationships?
  • Interested in Real (not Fairy-Tale) Love?
  • Ready to attract Lasting Relationship?


Have you experienced a series of romantic failures? So much so that the odds of having a fulfilling relationship seems unfavorably stacked against you?

Have you been repeating negative patterns?... not able to attract or sustain a relationship with the type of high-quality man you desire?

Are bad habits running havoc on your relationship?
How many more failed relationships are you willing to go through? How many more promising dates, only to have men walk away or disappear without a word?

Are you suffering from crippling anxiety that maybe the relationship you want will never happen for you?

Feeling completely powerless to do anything to change this part of your life and slowly becoming more and more depressed?

Are you exhausted by having to play games in order to try and win a man's heart… tired of having to be someone else for the promise of love that never seems to come?

Do you keep picking the wrong emotionally unavailable men that don't fully appreciate you the way that you need?

What if you could end your cycle of loneliness and finally find a connection that lasts?

No more settling. You CAN learn how to attract a high-quality man that’s head over heels into YOU.

Relationships are one of the most important gratifying things in life. Unfortunately, many of the women we talk with are not experiencing the love they yearn for.

Finally, Start To Understand Men and what they respond to. Men can a lot of times seem aloof, disengaged, unpredictable, hard to gauge and really just plain hard to figure out.

YES! Attracting A Lasting Love Is Still Possible. We know finding and cultivating an intimate open and honest relationship with a man you can trust seems to be a hard and fleeting thing, but we want you to know that it’s possible. 

Learn How To Be More Vulnerable & Draw Him In. What if you were able to get into the mind of how a man thinks? To get an inside look into the signs of when he is fully interested and when he’s not? When to invest, and when to pull back?  What if you knew the guy code to help you better understand how to interact with the type of man you desire?

Well, all of these are only the beginning to what we are teaching you in Relationship Ready.


We don’t just deal with the surface, we get to the bottom of your relationship woes.

We help you transform your most painful relationship challenges so that you can... 

Be your most sexy, confident fully- expressed self. 

Get more clarity & confidence when dating,

Always know what to do and when to do it. 

Get a certain sense of ease when relating to men.


Get practical tools and implementation strategies that will help you effortlessly attract a high-quality man. 


Opened my eyes, my heart and my mind. I feel so free after learning from you two!

- Linda S.




  • 9 Hours of Pre-Recorded Coaching
  • Hundreds of Members
  • 35 Video Lessons
  • 100% Recommendation Rate*
* 100% of surveyed program graduates say they recommend Relationship Ready to another woman

THE Online Program To Attract a Love Relationship That Lasts

Our program gives you a complete blueprint for becoming "The One" in his eyes. It’s a deep-dive program that gives you a new way to approach men and create deep connections with them more effortlessly. It’s taught by us, two humble and conscious men, who aim to give you an unveiled insight on how to relate with men via from a man’s perspective so you can inspire him to love and be loved with you.


  • How to make a clear break from your past baggage and create a new passionate, healthy relationship with a man you desire
  • How to stop doubting yourself and finally be anxiety free in the dating phase so you can be the kind of woman a man can’t help but open his heart to
  • How to have crucial "gateway conversations" - specific scripts to say to him during those critical moments, which determine whether your relationship lasts.
  • The complete blueprint of how to become “The One” in his eyes. A new way to approach men, that makes deepening the connection with him easy and automatic
  • How to stop attracting the wrong kinds of men and start attracting men that want YOU
  • How to maintain your voice and self-respect with men you’re head over heels in love with in a way that brings him closer

35+ Video Classes [value $1500]

  • 6 Rich & Focused Relationship Modules easily-digested teachings each and every week (Week 1 immediately available when you enroll)
  • HD Videos Available 24/7 on various devices. (phone, tablet, laptop, & desktop) in video or audio mp3 format.
  • Taught by experienced teachers - Clayton has in a 8 million view Youtube Relationship channel having coached thousands of women 1-on-1 and Jack has taught over 10,000 people live over 4 continents
  • Specific practices and challenges each week so you can get real-life experience on learning how to connect deeply with men and ENJOY this journey no matter what phase of life you're in.

Pre-recorded Q&A video coaching calls [value $900]

  • 6 x 90 minute pre-recorded coaching videos of Jack and Clayton coaching women through breakups, dating and navigating difficult relationship situations.
  • Hyper-effective communication scripts put into action for real life scenarios
  • A rare front-seat privilege and window into ALL the questions and fears women have about men, dating, settling down, knowing when to let a guy go, how to go from casual to committed, etc.
  • Questions and coaching topics relate to each week's material, so you can integrate and apply it in your life
  • Healing NLP processes you can do from your home to help you recover from past wounds and experience more freedom with men now
  • All material available 24/7 on your phone, tablet, laptop or desktop




Thank you very much for this eye-opening program! I just started and already got so many useful tips from week 1. I particularly like the curiosity vs doubt concept, how to handle our inner critic and don't blame/speak unarguably.

- Aggeliki, Greece


We are going to lay a powerful foundation for you to have the tools and awareness that support you being in a real and loving relationship. 

  • Deal with triggers and counter-triggers so you can completely eliminate relationship anxiety.
  • Maintain your voice and self-respect with a man you are head over heels in love with.
  • Communicate what you really need without pushing them away. 
Deal with your inner critic - your biggest place of relationship self-sabotage.
  • Learn exactly how to attract what you want by crafting your own vision for a conscious relationship.



Week 2 about Personas was a powerful session for me that brought up new ways to look at how my shadow responds in relationships. Even better, now when I recognize them, instead of beating myself up I can say “oh isn’t that interesting.” -

- Meadow, Oregon


This week will allow you to clearly discover the roles you have been playing with men and what problems you may have unknowingly been attracting based on your childhood. And then you'll discover how to choose something better.

You'll uncover:

  • How to stop attracting the wrong kinds of men and start attracting men that want YOU
  • How to make a clear break with your relationship past so you can create something new
  • How to allow yourself to get the kind of love you want that perhaps you didn't get in your upbringing
  • How to be in your power AND still be loved for you actually are without emasculating your man



So many insights from week 3! One for me is that trying to coach a man or offer unsolicited advice as a great way to communicate that you do not trust him. Wow.

- Mimi, OakLAND, US

Getting His World - The Owner’s Manual To His Heart

The essence of this week is understanding a man the way he understands himself so you can get his hopes, fears, his edges and offer him support in a way that makes you irreplaceable.

You will discover:

  • How to INSPIRE a man to open his heart to you
  • How to no longer feel confused by men and get what they're feeling without them even telling you
  • How to stop feeling wounded by men so you can finally open up without the fear of getting hurt again
  • The one thing men need even more than your respect or love in order to feel like a man in your presence
  • When to give your man space in a way that feels honoring towards yourself and builds attraction



Week 4's content has been great. In the past, my tendency was to present myself as an Island (not revealing to intimate partners and significant others that I was actually FEELING like a Wave) because I didn't want to come across as needy. I actually desired more contact or support but chose to appear strong, which would result in a sense of loss/pain/feeling misunderstood because I didn't ask for and possibly would have received what I wanted.

- Christine, UK

Real Compatibility - How To Find YOUR Man

This where you get beyond your shopping list of wanting a smart, successful, kind man - and we get into what the four top factors that REALLY dictate long-term compatibility.

You will discover:

  • How to stop wasting your time on relationships that are doomed from the start
  • How to notice "unconscious attraction" so you can make great choices around who to partner with
  • How to not doubt yourself and trust your intuition (even while you are seriously attracted to a man)
  • The four essential compatibility factors for finding the right long-term partner
  • The subtle questions to ask that reveal a man's value system - those things closest to his heart.
  • You'll finally understand the real reason your relationships didn't work and how to create a solid foundation of compatibility from the ground up



Module 5. WHAAAT???? You guys are frigging awesome. Love you guys. Thanks for this course. Also I am going way back deeper into the persona module to make sure I am fully conscious of the persona work for myself.. Your talk on vulnerability was the BEST I have seen out there. I hear people allude to it all the time. But honestly I did not understand it until now!! xoxox. Grateful for you guys! -


Blocks To Intimacy - Reclaiming Your Vulnerability

At the deepest level, what you want from your relationship is genuine, authentic intimacy. This module is all about discovering what blocks your greatest path to intimacy - which is your vulnerability.

You will discover:

  • How to open to the power of your heart, which is what HE NEEDS and what you really want to do
  • How to trust whether a man is worth opening to, so you don't have unnecessary heartbreak
  • How to step into your strong feminine, ultimately making men feel needed and respected
  • How to understand your "primary defense strategy", so you don't have the pain of withdrawing your love
  • How to communicate your experience, so you don't have to push him away or put him on the defensive
  • How to have crucial "gateway conversations" - specific scripts to shape the conversations which will determine where your relationships go.



Just wanted to share week 6 - To the Future - is so immensely powerful material. Anybody going through rough times, whether it's relationships or other areas in your life - listen to this module!

Jack and Clayton, I am truly grateful to have found and met you online. It's not just your vast expertise that you share with us but also that you put in all your heart and soul in helping others to grow and eventually build and have those amazing relationships. How purposeful a job is that. Thank you so much for the work you do. You are amazing coaches.

- Monika, Austria

Stepping Into Your Future - Becoming The One

This week is all about distilling what you have learnt and putting it into an action plan for being fully Relationship Ready. We will have some recaps of key learning points to make sure everything has landed and is actionable.

You will discover:

  • How to set up your unique relationship action plan, so you know the highest-leverage things you can do to invite the relationship you want into your life
  • How to let go of your expectations, so you can radiate more joy and aliveness (and WANT a relationship, vs NEED one)
  • How to trust life at a deeper level, so you have more ease and peace of mind.
  • A spiritual truth about life and relationships that helps you create a potent feminine magnetism men want to be around. Specific further opportunities to deepen your learning

PLUS Get these Added Bonuses Worth $1,000



This will be our private online fellowship where we share, support and challenge one another each and every day of the program. 

We both spend many hours a month coaching here.

  • Get Direct support from us and your peers
  • Get lifetime access to our time here
  • Be surrounded by like-minded women who are experiencing similar challenges and questions

[VALUE $500]


Actions of Attraction + 3 Instincts ‘Master Model’

This program breaks men down into 3 archetypes you need to understand

  • This program breaks men down into 3 archetypes you need to understand
  • Simple actions that meet a man’s deepest needs and help him feel seen, respected and loved in a very special way
  • Audios you can listen to 24/7
  • Listen to Clayton while you fall asleep at night!

[VALUE $97]



Emotional Intelligence 101 Interview

A really rich conversation between Jack and Andrea Isaacs, international workshop leader, and emotional intelligence expert.

We cover:

  • How to be increase your emotional intelligence - the most important intelligence for relationship success
  • How to give feedback that is more easily heard.
  • How to balance giving and receiving, knowing that one is likely harder for you to do fully.
  • How to overcome being shy and withdrawn.
  • How to unblock yourself to bring more of your radiance and expression.

[VALUE $97]


How To Love Better Interview

You will love Dr. Keith Witt, he’s a real gem and has done over 10,000 hours of couples’ work!

In this interview we cover:    

  • 5 questions to ask any potential partner (guarantee you won’t have heard these)
  • How to break habitual trigger responses
  • Noticing the predictors of cheating
  • Knowing the difference between lust, romantic infatuation and intimate bonding - and why you want to stay the course
  • How to have your biology support you - and not hijack you unhelpfully

[VALUE $97]


4 Pillars of A Conscious Relationship Ebook

This is Jack and Clayton's debut book together and we have people telling us it is worth the ENTIRE course investment alone! 

In this concise ebook, you will learn:

  • Why and how to take responsibility for your experience.
  • How to stop unconsciously attracting guys just like your (or a reaction to) your dad
  • How to deal with your emotions authentically, rather than reactively
  • How to communicate responsibly and effectively

[VALUE $127]


Hear stories from other women like you

"This course has been very, very healing for me. I'm just now beginning to show the self-respect I deserve."
Kathy, 57, Australia
"This experience has been life altering in how to conduct myself when I am triggered so the encounter does not spiral out of control, and more importantly, how to communicate my vulnerability"
Sue, 60
"All the counseling I have done for the past 2 years has not had this kind of impact that your program did. Life changing!"
Shar, 42, California
"You both have such clarity of thought, perception, and understanding and I am SO, SO glad I purchased the course."
"Both you (Jack) and Clayton are amazing with your advice and insights on dating and relationships. I am blown away by your content"
Sara, 32, United Arab Emirates


  • 35+ video modules - $1500
  • How to Love Better Interview - $97
  • Actions of Attraction - $97
  • Pre-recorded Q&A calls - $900
  • Facebook group - $500
  • Emotional Intelligence 101 - $97
  • 4 Pillars of A Conscious Relationship Ebook - $127

Total program value = $3588


Yes, I’m Ready to BECOME THE ONE


  • 1 Payment of $997
  • 24/7 Lifetime Access


  • 3 Payments of $197
  • 24/7 Lifetime Access

More About Clayton and Jack


Jack and Clayton met over a fire pit at a housewarming party in Boulder, Colorado in Fall 2014.  They clicked and immediately started bouncing ideas about personal growth, transformation and the big questions of life.

In 2016, Clayton accepted an invitation to join Jack for a month in Bali, and during hikes in rice paddies and humid sightseeing, they started to talk about what they could create together as coaches.

Clayton played a little hard to get.  But in early 2017 when he and Jack overlapped in Marin County, California, overlooking the Pacific Ocean with the shore lapping on a beautiful rock, they agreed to create a webinar for women who wanted more from their love life.

After that webinar, a huge number of co-created Youtube videos, and a vibrantly growing community of women being impacted by their work, their teaching has evolved into the Relationship Ready program which you are being invited to be part of today.

They are committed to helping you be more of yourself whilst attracting and keeping the right man.  Relationships are not what they were for our parents and grandparents.  The new relationship is where we really get to deepen who we are and love from that place.  It’s hard, but it’s well worth it. 

Join us!

In your corner, love,

Jack Clayton

“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”

Clayton Olson


Perhaps you've given up on love or think you're not meant to be in a relationship at this time.  Let us do the hard lifting for you.  One of the biggest changes you'll get from this course is the self-belief that it is possible and the relationship doesn't have to be as hard as you've been making it.  This course is designed to shift core beliefs.  This work is hard to do on your own and that's why when you let us be your stewards in this, we can help you see the things in your way that you can't see.  The invisible obstacles standing in your way.  Our goal is to prepare you now so that when the moment comes when you meet a man that makes you feel weak in the knees, you're completely ready.

Maybe you have other responsibilities. We're busy guys too. We've designed this program is to have a very streamlined core. There are core modules and then auxiliary modules. If you're busy stick to the core modules. If you have more time, then you can go through the optional modules as well. You'll also have access to the course indefinitely and can move at your own pace.

If you don't have time to watch the videos, you can listen to the audios. If that doesn't work we also have all the modules in very clear transcription/written form. It's all available 24/7 in the member area. You can put it on in your car, you can play the audios in the gym or in your bed at night before you go to sleep.

Lastly, we want to make this fun and enjoyable! Not only are Clayton and Jack two teachers that have their own coaching practices, but they're also really good friends that have decided to come together. There is a natural synergy they're offering that just deepens the coaching and your experience in the course.

This content is appropriate to all women over the age of 28.  In our community, we have lots of women in their 50s and 60s, and they are some of our biggest success stories.  Later in life, you sometimes have more data to draw from which can actually help you understand what we are teaching more easily.  Sometimes, with fewer commitments to buying a house and raising young children, our older community members have more time to engage with the material more deeply.  It’s not uncommon for people to go through the program more than once.

One of the most impactful modules in our program distinguishes companionship, lovership, and partnership. Our aim is actually to help you BECOME the one, which means being fully yourself in a relationship and loved for who you really are. We are helping empower you to have the relationship you want NOW, not based upon what other people think or what you had or wanted in the past, but what is right for you now.

Firstly, you’re not alone. Lots of our community members feel new to the dating game. Maybe you have been in a long-term marriage or relationship, and are finding it difficult to get out dating. Maybe the dating game has changed a lot since when you were last dating, with the advent of online dating, Tinder and so on. Our commitment is for you to enjoy your dating from a place of being more fully yourself, communicating who you are and then trusting what unfolds. The perspective we teach has been immensely empowering for people who feel like dating is a game they don’t want to play, or that there are tricks and tips they are no good at. You will likely find our approach refreshing because it is rooted in being genuine. So, if you’re not enjoying your dating, why not let us support you?

For starters, this course is not just for single women.  Maybe your man hasn't committed to you fully yet.  Perhaps you want more attention, time or presence from him.  Maybe you're craving more from the relationship but don't know how to inspire him to really step in and meet you the way you need!  Jack and Clayton dedicate an entire portion of the curriculum to "Crucial Conversations" where we're going to show you the exact language on how to navigate those conversations so you can bring your relationship with him to a deeper level.  In addition, if you've been feeling insecure or unsure about whether he's going to leave you, you're covered there as well.  Particularly Module 3 and 4 dive deep into relational dynamics that will help you see what's REALLY going on between you two.

First, this is not a get your ex back program, however, this program is about deep and real relationship. It's about being ready for the kind of relationship you want. The kind that you crave the kind that you've dreamed of. Now if your ex wants to create that with you, fantastic. It's often time the case that if your relationship wasn't working, it's because you were wanting more from him. More leadership, more presence, more love; and with the relationship ready program, you'll discover how to inspire men to want to lead, commit and be totally 'in' with you when it comes to relationship.

Second, this may be the perfect time to go through this program. A breakup can be one of the most emotionally devastating times of our lives. It can also be the time when we transform in ways that were never available to us in the past. We invite you to see this as such a potent time to step into this course and allow it to motivate you to rework and upgrade the way you relate to everyone. You have a natural momentum from the breakup that will make consuming and applying the material that much easier and your results even more phenomenal.

Plus, you'll be surrounded by other like-minded women to help you support you through this time.

Most relationship programs don't go this deep. Relationship Ready is not about giving you more information. It's about transformation. It's about fundamentally changing the way you see yourself, men and relationship from this point forward. The promise of this program is that at the end of week 6, when you look in the mirror you'll have a completely new, loving experience of who you are.

Let us take the risk.

We're giving a 30-day money back guarantee. We'll shoulder the burden. If you truly feel like this is an experience that isn't growing you, challenging you and enriching your relationships, email us and we'll give you all your money back.

There is rarely a perfect time for coaching. Said differently, there is rarely a perfect time to invest in yourself and change your life. The question becomes... what are your deepest priorities. When you get quiet and tap into your heart, what is it that you want? Is it a relationship? If so and you want to say not now, then my question is...when? Often times when we say now is not the time, we're finding another way to stay safe and only ensure we keep getting the same results. Nothing really changes except we get another year older. I can't tell you how many women have sent unsolicited emails wishing they would have taken this course sooner

We're giving you the inside scoop of what men want.  Jack and I have been coaching guys for years.  We've also been in men's groups, seminars and been privy to the deepest secrets men hold about their thoughts on women and relationships.  We've got A LOT to share on the matter.  There are certain things men are just too uncomfortable and too scared to share with you.  These are the thoughts and desires men wish you knew but sometimes just don't have the language to share.  Jack and I act as a powerful bridge in this regard and can help you see more clearly your value as a woman in our lives and the things that we need to step in and commit completely. 
Relationship is about fulfillment.  The giving and receiving of love.  Jack and Clayton have the unique ability to make that process feel much more safe and accessible to women like you.

Start attractingLOVE now

(If not now, then when?)

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